I really feel silly right now. I know people get what they need more than what they want, but what if I want to get what I want, as in what I really really want. And what if I don't understand myself anymore, now who would even bother?

Maybe I should stop listening to songs, they only give my thoughts another three minutes to fully sink into my head.

Congratulations. I hate this part.

Labels: aaa, huh, it hit me

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then
he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is
you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch
of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from
his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it
against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than
you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man,
nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...
compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there
is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before
pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for
someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be
Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always
know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he
takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they
know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her
choices, and another woman prepare.

Labels: love, men, pain

I feel weird. I have a ji tomorrow and I'm not even excited about it. Maybe I'm just scared, or chicken about it, scared or chicken, whatever. Or maybe I really don't like it in the first place. I wasn't the one who contacted them, they were the one who went out for me. That makes a HUGE difference.

I'm loving the weather. I'm not exactly running outside doing the rain dance or something close, not yet. I just think that it pays to appreciate little things like the sound of the pouring rain. It might sound a cliche alright, but really, rain doesn't happen everyday. And I think that it's just silly that people ask for rain when it's summer, or for warmth amidst a storm. So I just realized, maybe Mr. Emong The Bagyo deserves a bit of appreciation for coming in the middle of undoubtedly the hottest summer and a tad too early for the rainy season.

I'm thinking about actually changing my blog's url to whateverisms.blogspot.com but I'm pretty sure it's not available anymore. Sometimes when you think you're oh-so-great for coming up with a unique idea, there's always someone more intuitive (I guess) who came up with the same thought much earlier, and that just spoils it for you. Or maybe I'm just being that pessimistic brat who likes to procrastinate things and then blames others for her own lack of anticipation. Or maybe, I just lack eagerness. Lol.

I just realized, I cannot hold my pee any longer. Imma end this now.

Labels: Whatever

Uh oh. I don't like my new blog layout. Will change this, again, when I have time.

Labels: layout design